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How to Cope With the Effects of Parental Alienation
Did You Know That...
Parental Alienation is a Form of Child Abuse?
Parental alienation or parental alienation syndrome involves the systematic brainwashing and manipulation of children with the sole purpose of destroying a loving and warm relationship they once shared with a parent.
Parental alienation deprives children of their right to be loved by and showing love for both of their parents. These selfish, vindictive and malicious actions by the alienating parent (i.e., the parent who is responsible for the manipulations and brainwashing) is considered a form of child abuse - as the alienating tactics used on the children are disturbing, confusing and often frightening. These tactics also rob children of their sense of security and safety by having them believe things about their parent that simply are untrue.
Is This What is Happening to Your Children and Your Relationship with Them?
Dr. Reena Sommer, Ph.D.
Dear Parents:
Chances are if you have arrived at this page, then you are already experiencing some of the extreme negative fallout of divorce involving children.
The key to dealing with parental alienation is just that - deal with it! Parental alienation does not usually just go away. Alienating parents tend to be driven in their efforts to destroy their children's relationship with their other parent. Usually, alienating parents do not stop until they are successful. Being conciliatory or patient does not typically work with these parents. Attempts to wait it out or giving the parent the benefit of the doubt, simply gives the alienating parent more opportunity to continue the process of alienation.
If you believe that your ex-spouse may be interfering with your children's relationship with you, then please... do not wait. Parental alienation must be dealt with aggressively and promptly. The longer it is allowed to continue, the more damage will be done to the children and their relationship with you.
Early Signs of Parental Alienation
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Children perceive you as causing financial problems of the other parent
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Children appear to have knowledge of details relating to the legal aspects of the divorce
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Children show sudden negative change in their attitude toward you
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Children appear uneasy around you - they resort to "one word" answers and fail to engage openly in conversations as they previously have done
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Children cancel prior arrangements with you at the last minute
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Children are uncharacteristically rude and/or belligerent to you
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Access time is not occuring as agreed upon or court ordered - visitation is being unilaterally cut back by the other parent
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Ex-spouse undermines you or speaks disparagingly about you in the presence of the children
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Ex-spouse starts making reference to you as being abusive and a risk to the children
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When it Comes to Parental Alienation...
The WORST Thing You Can Do is Wait
If you have observed any of these signs in your children which were not present until recently, this may be an indication that they are being negatively influenced against you - most likely by the other parent.
Parental Alienation Need NOT Be Hopeless
Just as in the case of treating cancer, early detection is essential. It is also the best predictor of a positive outcome. There are a number of strategies that can be used to effectively avert the destructive effects of parental alienation. An important beginning strategy includes finding professionals who are well versed in managing parental alienation or parental alienation syndrome and becoming vigilant in gathering evidence of the alienation.
The Problem Is...
Finding the right professionals to assist you is often difficult. This is because parental alienation and parental alienation are not well understood and as a consequence many professionals are ill informed about these problems.
In many instances, working with an attorney who does not understand what parental alienation is can do you more harm to your case than good. For example, in most divorce situations, negotiation generally is a very effective way at arriving at a satisfactory settlement. However, negotiations do not work with an alienating parent. Typically alienating parents will not agree to anything unless he or she has no other recourse. As a consequence, if an attorney pursues negotiations, he or she will be wasting valuable time and energy while all the while, the alienating process continues to worsen. A well informed attorney will know that negotiations are inappropriate in cases involving parental alienation.
Realize this - PAS will not get better with time. In fact. waiting is one of the worst things you can do. The best way to manage PAS is head-on with an appropriate strategy.
Here is a Viable Solution to...
not having access to a professional
who is knowledgeable about parental alienation
I am a court recognized expert in parental alienation and parental alienation syndrome. I have successfully gone through a rigorous Daubert challenge on PAS. I am now in a position to offer parents who are struggling with challenging custody situations an opportunity to avail themselves of my consultative services by telephone. For the past five years, I have expanded my consulting practise to the global community - thanks to the Internet and modern technology which makes consulting with clients throughout the U.S.A., Canada and even locations overseas as easy as doing so locally.
Telephone consultations can be arranged on a per session or ongoing basis. The cost of a thirty-minute (30) session is just $97. Fees for on going sessions are quoted on an individual basis based on the individual needs of a client.
What Can be Accomplished During a
30-Minute telephone Consultation?
Here Are Just a Few Issues
That Can Be Addressed
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Determine if a custody evaluation is appropriate in your case
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Develop appropriate referral questions for custody evaluations which are designed to identify PAS
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Decide if fighting for sole custody is a viable option
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Assess options for re-establishing contact with your children
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And... much more!
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Clients utilizing telephone consulting services will also receive a complimentary copy of my court ready & fully referenced report, "Children's Adjustment to Divorce - The Case of Parental Alienation Syndrome.
Arrange a 30-minute Telephone Consultation Right Now
(and receive your complimentary report)
Your Preliminary Questions are Welcome
Call Dr. Sommer at:
281.54.3923
or contact her by email
CLICK HERE
I am pleased to offer you the opportunity to regain your relationship with your children and in doing so, ensure that their right to maintaining a relationship with both parents is respected.
Remember, parental alienation is not hopeless and there is much that can be done to avert its destructive effects. The key is to act promptly and to have the best assistance possible. PAS will not go away.
My best to you,
Dr. Reena Sommer,
M.Sc. (Family Studies),
Ph.D.(Psychology & Family Studies)
Divorce & Custody Consultant
League City, TX. 77573
Phone: 281.534.3923
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